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Post by swankivy on Jun 4, 2010 3:12:33 GMT -5
What's In a Name?
If you adopted an unrelated child into your family, what would you want to name him or her? If you don't know, at least say what factors would influence your choice.
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Post by blondiviolette on Jun 4, 2010 18:08:37 GMT -5
Well if we adopted a child into our family it would be a group decision I guess, I don't know what factors everyone else would go by to think up names but if I was the one in charge of naming, if the child was old enough to talk then I would ask the child what he or she would like to be called cause it would be nice for kids to get a say in what their name is, (though of course there is the possibility they'd just say: "Oh I wanna be called Mr Muscles or Boogerbrain or something like that and not take it seriously, haha). If they are unable to talk then I would probably go by the whole 'you look like a...' thing where you look at someone and say, "You look like a..." and then pick a name based on their features and actions etc like sometimes people post on forums a photo of themselves and ask the public what name they look like. I've done that on the bus going home to keep amused, I look at people and think what their name could be. I would try to steer away from generic names that billions upon billions are called if possible but not choose a name that is too strange or alien or just plain silly like some guardians call their kids after an object or a superhero character and then the kid's gotta grow up with all the teasing and hating their name, I wouldn't do that to them.
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Post by SHO! on Jun 6, 2010 10:39:16 GMT -5
What's In a Name?If you adopted an unrelated child into your family, what would you want to name him or her? If you don't know, at least say what factors would influence your choice. I pretty much agree with blondiviolette on this one. If at all possible I'd sit down and have a discussion with the child on what they'd like to be called and perhaps help them decide with questions about what/who they like and suggestion on what they could be called. If they were too young for that then I'd spend a lot of time with them, observing their behavior and really concentrating on the name I feel for them.
However, it is possible that I'd be the wrong person all together to choose a name for another person. I don't really have a name myself anymore. Not one that feels like me at least.
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Post by synesthesia on Jun 6, 2010 20:00:35 GMT -5
One day I'd like to adopt. I don't believe I'm ready to adopt an older child, it's more complicated and challenging than folks realize. If I did, it's up to the child what they want their name to be. They would probably ALREADY have a name. If I adopted a child from foster care, due to abuse or neglect, perhaps they'd want to change their name.
If I adopted internationally, it would be nice if the child had a name from their country and an American name. I'd want to name a child Dmitri or Xavier if he's a boy, Simone Isabella if it's a girl. Or Lyric, because I love that name.
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